That's a very enlightening bit, especially for people who are not used to negotiate stuff all year round.
For me it boils down to this : I try to be as comfortable walking away as I would be accepting an offer. Otherwise I just don't enter any negotiation phase. Also when expressing salary expectations, I try to aim high enough to be sure they will not accept my initial demand. If they did that'd be a sign I just left something on the table.
However, it can be most difficult to put oneself in a position to leave the table. Developers are in a very privileged position in this regard. For most employees walking away could mean being out of a job for several months and employers know this.
For me it boils down to this : I try to be as comfortable walking away as I would be accepting an offer. Otherwise I just don't enter any negotiation phase. Also when expressing salary expectations, I try to aim high enough to be sure they will not accept my initial demand. If they did that'd be a sign I just left something on the table.
However, it can be most difficult to put oneself in a position to leave the table. Developers are in a very privileged position in this regard. For most employees walking away could mean being out of a job for several months and employers know this.