Hello HN people,
I'm feeling lost for a while and all the local people who I've tried getting in contact with, well, they all say the same thing over and over again. I want to drop college.
The big problem is that everyone is trying to make me feel bad about this, as if this would be the end of the world, as if there are only 2 choices in life: college or be a bum.
For me this feels wrong. I mean, I've started programming for fun at a really young age, and I've managed to get my first (full-time) job in the summer break after 10th grade and continued until I finished my high-school. Since then I've worked with a different company and in my spare time I've tried starting various projects of mine.
As I've said, I've started programming out of pure pleasure, and I consider that I've learned a lot like that, and now it feels like the only way to get by in life would be for me to merge back into some kind of slow-lane. I've tried going to college, and teachers either told me that I will be bored at their courses or that they will give me some extra course work (which the did only for the first time). The companies that I've worked for just treated me like some kind of valuable asset, and didn't even have a "career path/planning". I've stayed in a company for 1 year and carried out quite a lot of the work and was underpaid compared to the local standard. And when I left, they just told me they expected that to happen at some point.
It's really hard for me to believe that there is no place for people like me. All I'm trying to do is to keep learning at the same speed and with the same passion, bring my contribution to the world, but people just tell me that I'm too young, not experienced, etc.
Please HN people, tell me your opinion, help me understand what I should do!
*Sorry for my english, I may have slipped a couple of mistakes in.
Why get the degree?
1) Because there is no circumstance where having an undergraduate degree makes you worse off than not having it.
2) Because now is the easiest and cheapest time in your life to check the degree box.
3) Because the opportunity to be a college student may, if you take advantage of it, give you the option to ease into parts of being an Honest to God Adult (TM) like, e.g., resolving conflicts with people who aren't family members or keeping a budget or juggling multiple priorities at once. It can be easier to get adjusted to this sort of stuff when you are not also getting adjusted to the wild world of working.
4) Many employers in our line of work do not strictly speaking require a degree. Unfortunately, you will occasionally in life be called to deal with people of good will who have irrational requirements. For example, governments and future mothers-in-law may have absolute requirements for college degrees. Check the box today, avoid a heck of a lot of stress in eight years.
You've got the rest of your life to work on the career thing. Trust me, it's plenty of time.
If you drop out, are you condemned to being a bum? Not in the least. Recommendations at this point would differ based on where you live, but they're probably going to sound like some variant of "Find a clueful company which has room for a young engineer to both learn from more experienced engineers and also meaningfully impact the organization. Work for them for 3-4 years then reassess."