First, make a calendar invite for yourself and your girlfriend. Call it "kriptonic career and family budget meeting." Make the event for an hour, next weekend. Send her an invite too.
Then go to bed and cuddle. Immediately.
In the morning, on the way to work, start to think about how you could reframe your plans on a twenty year scale, optimizing for happiness at home.
Then go to bed and cuddle. Immediately.
In the morning, on the way to work, start to think about how you could reframe your plans on a twenty year scale, optimizing for happiness at home.