Safe career is better? Not really. Given that a male is reasonably unlikely to be killed, most men will have wives, but the more competitive, higher paid ones, will get the more desirable women. Remember the company Christmas party? The executives didn't have dogs.
The men who dont get wives are those at the bottom of the heap: in jail, on drugs, homeless.
The men who dont get wives are those at the bottom of the heap: in jail, on drugs, homeless.