My *ex* gave me an ultimatum: we move to FL, or we break up (she hated IN). We m...

Tangurena on March 25, 2009 | parent | context | favorite | on: Ask HN: How do you know what you want?

My ex gave me an ultimatum: we move to FL, or we break up (she hated IN). We moved to FL, and about 10 months later it was over. By my estimate, doing that cost me about $500k over the last 20 years.