Another good approach is to replace 'delete' with 'select count(1)' or something similar. The where clause can remain the same, you know how many rows will be affected and there's less overhead of remembering to set up a transaction, writing an update statement, rolling back, etc.
Yeah, if I ever did have to troubleshoot in SQL directly, I definitely started doing this ... only changing it to update or delete when I was 100% sure it was affecting only what I wanted to affect.