TLDR is a pragmatic device; it's a written discourse marker. Calling it "unnecessary" is just like saying that "well...", "y'know", "so...", "like" and all those other little "filler words" that your high school English teacher doesn't like are "unnecessary". In formal prose, where all that's supposed to matter is textual semantics, sure, they're not necessary, and I wouldn't use them there. But in informal discourse, they're essential; not for conveying propositional information, but for negotiating social discourse information.
The "TLDR" is all-caps, so it grabs your eye out of the wall-o-text that you may be skimming over, and says "hey here is my basic point". And maybe then you'll go "hey that's an interesting point" and scroll back up and read their lengthy argument, story, or whatever, in all its labrynthine discoursiveness.
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TL;DR: One sentence with a block of all-caps beginning it sure catches your eye at the end of a long post.
That was completely unnerving. Without even realising I had done it I completely skipped over the block of text to the TL;DR and only after did I realise it was just Lorem Ipsum nonsense.
I totally agree with TL;DR usage, it's a modern device for modern internet communication. People continue to use it because it's useful and works, not because they have an agenda to ruin the english language or are semi-illiterate. Possibly my favourite thing about it though is its lack of pronounceability. Its entirely invented and used as a written construct and is actually quite cumbersome to try to say out loud.
Interesting tangent, as someone who was fluent in Latin many moons ago (could speak it at an English conversational pace), I literally had to force myself to ignore your filler (which includes several Latin fragments).
It's from a "Hipster Ipsum" generator. Designers traditionally use a piece of malformed Latin to indicate "there is some text here" without having actual text.
What if TL;DR is not in all-caps, e.g. tl;dr? The lowercase version is quite prevalent on Reddit. Of course it still stands out from a block of standard English prose because of the odd shape of the combination (especially the semicolon in the middle), but not so much as the all-caps version.