It’s fairly stable, but with a large codebase I’ve seen it take a day + to rebuild the search index, not to mention GHES relies on GitHub.com for the allowed actions list functionality which is a huge PITA. It should not rely on the cloud hosted version for any functionality. That having been said, I don’t think there’s much of an alternative and I quite like it.
you don't have to manage access to Actions that way.
on GHES you can use https://github.com/actions/actions-sync/ to pull the actions you want down to your local GHES instance, turn off the ability to automatically use actions from github.com via GitHub Connect, and use the list of actions you sync locally as your whitelist.
My employer did this for years. It worked very well. Once a day, pull each action that we had whitelisted into GHES and the runners would use those instead of the actions on github.com.
