Ah, sorry. I may have misinterpreted your question.
I've only had a garage worth having motorization for a short time. It isn't something I've thought a ton about: While I do have this garage, and it would be nice to be able to park a car in there on a daily basis, and having it be motorized (and automated!) would be great, it's still full of the detritus from moving. Having the door go up and down by itself is pretty low on the list right now and will probably remain that way until the weather gets warmer and drier. :)
When I have thought about it, I've thought that building something myself would be adequate; that I'd just pick any dumb opener that has open/closed IO exposed, and graft on the connectivity functions I need with an ESP32 and some relays, using ESPHome.
Or maybe Shelly modules: One variation or another might have enough IO built in to do it, and they're packaged neatly, priced right, and the default software integrates well with Home Assistant. (They've also got ESP32s inside and can run ESPHome if one is so-inclined.)
Seems easy enough to me, and I've certainly done much more daunting and elaborate integration stuff at $dayjob.
But I don't know of a competitive "just-works" LAN-controllable garage door opener.
If it weren't for the SNAFU a year or so ago[0], I'd probably pick Chamberlain and a Ratdgo[1] board for local network control. But as it stands, I do not want to reward Chamberlain with any of my dollars, and I'm willing to go to any expense in order to avoid doing so.
