Lol this is so incorrect it's almost funny. Google saved something like single digit % of CPU and memory fleet wide by switching to this map. That's not a micro benchmark
Learn to read with understanding and learn to have some respect as well. Never have I said that it cannot make a difference but that it's not universal and that it depends on the workload.
Ok let me try to unpack what I'm saying so that we're on the same page:
1. Until c++ [toolchains] do an abi break, you will find better performance in libraries like boost/folly/absl than in the STL. Titus wrote about this in "abi now or never" ~4 years ago. His thesis was "the language is leaving performance on the table, and by default if you care about performance you should not use the STL." Afaict this is all still true. If you think this is a meme, you're wrong, it's existential for companies like Google.
2. You mention a bunch of things that one might consider when picking a hashmap. "There might be a workload where I need one map vs another." Yes, that's true. However, my original statement was saying: if you care about performance you should not use unordered map. This is sort of like saying "if you care about performance you should not use bubble sort." Of course there are lots of considerations when choosing a sorting algorithm. Does it need to be cache tuned/oblivious? Do you have a lot of runs in your data (eg is it mostly sorted?)? HOWEVER, I will happily tell you to prefer a gently optimized quick sort over bubble sort for ~all workloads, and if you need further performance then go consider those things.
The performance of the absl/folly maps is not a joke. It's the basis for the rust hash map. These are good, general purpose hash maps. That's not a meme. It's also not a meme to say that the cpp working groups are generally unwilling to make ABI breaks for small improvements (indeed, in the past decade they haven't made an ABI break to bundle large improvements)
Microbenchmark suite is very different from fleet wide profiling
The whole point of switching every single use of unordered map to node/flat hash map is because it is always better. It always uses less memory (much less memory per node).
Edit: what did I say that was disrespectful? I called you out for being wrong because you're very wrong
