If I build a manual transmission car, and you insist on driving it like an automatic, it's not going to work for you, even though it's an amazing car. There are steps and processes that you must follow in order for the thing to work for you. If you don't, it won't. Simple as that.
Put another way, if you enter the olympics for breakdancing, and then just move your body around in a floppy way, you will not win the gold medal.
Put another way, if you enter the olympics for breakdancing, and then just move your body around in a floppy way, you will not win the gold medal.