There are other comments, dead, that talk about the wife having a "female body part" pass because she is not sitting in jail. Those comments are just hypothesizing but add nothing to the conversation.
Is not hypothesizing when you say it is "clear this guy is an abusive relationship. Your wife doesn’t up and poison you one day."
You are accusing the guy of committing a serious crime because he was poisoned, unless you have some additional information that was not in the article I am not sure how you can reach that conclusion.
There are many reasons someone's wife could poison them, aside from abuse; insurance money, having a boyfriend that you wish to elope with but fear the cultural stigma of divorce, psychosis.
My only agenda is to drive exploration of ideas rather than just making blanket statements where we have no evidence to make a determination.
> You are accusing the guy of committing a serious crime because he was poisoned
Yeah, that proves you read the comment you replied to further up the wrong way around. There was no "victim blaming" in saying "this guy is [in] an abusive relationship"; they obviously meant it was the wife who'd been abusing him for years. The only serious crime anyone had been talking about was her poisoning him, which was just another step in the abuse.
> My only agenda is to drive exploration of ideas...
Maybe you should begin with the basics, like learning to read better, before going on to the more advanced stuff.
I think it was a mix of the typo and also the passive voice rather than the active voice eg. He is in an abusive relationship vs. He is being abused or She is abusing him.
Is not hypothesizing when you say it is "clear this guy is an abusive relationship. Your wife doesn’t up and poison you one day."
You are accusing the guy of committing a serious crime because he was poisoned, unless you have some additional information that was not in the article I am not sure how you can reach that conclusion.
There are many reasons someone's wife could poison them, aside from abuse; insurance money, having a boyfriend that you wish to elope with but fear the cultural stigma of divorce, psychosis.
My only agenda is to drive exploration of ideas rather than just making blanket statements where we have no evidence to make a determination.