This is me. I prefer turn-based games where a single game will take me 4-6 months to complete. But I'm hardly spending every waking moment playing them.
I've been on a Master of Orion game for a few months now. I'm also a big fan of Stardew Valley. It's not turn-based, but close enough. Same with Surviving Mars, which has become one of my favorite games.
I play less, but if I play, I take my time. Rimworld or Elite Dangerous are what I keep coming back to for different reasons.
Don't want that quick shot. I need it slow and serious.