What about the zombie state of mind of when you have the urge to visit a bathroom to empty your overwhelmed colon/bladder? Isn't it way more sane to just do it and forget it than to walk around obsessed with such urge for hours and days requiring others to participate in the process?
There's a "rule of a thumb" I learnt as an adolescent: as soon as you feel attracted to somebody - jerk off and cool down so you become way more sober and do less stupid things. In particular - always jerk off before going to a date: if you still feel interested - this has a chance of being a meaningful relationship, otherwise this was just a stupid hormone play. And I never really needed porn to implement this, imagination was enough.
