This reminds me of a common conflict in my life (and probably much of society): the tension between compulsive improvers and others who are more content or complacent.
(For example, it is common for people take offense when some member of their group proposes an improvement.)
This contradiction was recently resolved for me by Suzuki Roshi’s statement: “You are perfect the way you are. And you could use some improvement.”
(Note: That’s a rough paraphrase. I recommend reading Suzuki Roshi’s compiled teachings – they’re very good.)
(For example, it is common for people take offense when some member of their group proposes an improvement.)
This contradiction was recently resolved for me by Suzuki Roshi’s statement: “You are perfect the way you are. And you could use some improvement.”
(Note: That’s a rough paraphrase. I recommend reading Suzuki Roshi’s compiled teachings – they’re very good.)