I think the explanation for "defund the police" is simpler... they just see the bad stuff cops do on the news, but haven't ever actually needed the cops personally (and few of their friends have too), primarily due to their affluence. There are exceptions, obviously.
Of the people who have obtained a restraining order, I wonder what percentage want to defund the police.
Of the people who have obtained a restraining order, I wonder what percentage want to defund the police.