Last time I truly used NextJS was in 2020 (it was v9), and that was only to make a statically generated brochure type site. I had started the site with Gatsby and didn't love Gatsby, so I switched to NextJS and loved it.
Recently I did start up a Next v13 project using the new App Router. But I haven't gotten that far past the initial scaffold and creating a couple components. Seeing all of these complaints about v13, especially the App Router, are making me want to scrap that and use something else.