Those problems might just be GNOME-related at this point. I've been daily-driving two different Nvidia cards for ~3 years now (1050 Ti then 3070 Ti) and Wayland has felt pretty stable for the past 12 months. The worst problem I had experienced in that time was Electron and Java apps drawing incorrectly in xWayland, but both of those are fixed upstream.
I'm definitely not against better hardware support for AI, but I think your problems are more GNOME's fault than Nvidia's. KDE's Wayland session is almost flawless on Nvidia nowadays.
I'm using KDE on Debian 12 with AMD GPU with Wayland, and works. it keeps being a bit annoying compared with X11 with a few programs (Eclipse, Dbeaver... I need to launch both with flags to not use Wayland backend). But even I can play AAA games without problems
I'm definitely not against better hardware support for AI, but I think your problems are more GNOME's fault than Nvidia's. KDE's Wayland session is almost flawless on Nvidia nowadays.