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Deep psychological trauma can be viewed as a form of brain injury.

It's honestly hard to compare emotional and physical trauma.

You'll heal from a black eye in a few weeks, a broken bone in a few months, whereas I've personally had some emotional baggage that took me literally 17 years + extensive journaling, meditation and psychedelic use to heal, which shows that some emotional scars can take a very long time to mend.

On the flip side, yeah, an injury like a stroke, or getting an eye poked out is permanent, while it's very possible in the modern world to find a new social circle after having been ostracised from an old one.

It's also perhaps useful to note that in the modern world, one type of trauma can lead to another - getting beat up can lead to some emotional trauma that lasts much longer than the physical injuries, being socially isolated can lead to destructive behaviours like drug/alcohol abuse and self-harm...




> It's honestly hard to compare emotional and physical trauma.

(as a message to the whole tree of comments, not just you)

It's also unnecessary to compare, it's not a competition. They're both trauma because damage has been done, they both scale from benign and playful[1] to horrifically destructive[2]. The worse it's enacted the worse it is, regardless of who did it and regardless of who did worse to the other gender.

[1]: eg: expressions during sex, or teases during flirting

[2]: eg violent shootings, or fake rape allegations - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11854355/Three-men-...




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