The biggest step is being able to separate guilt from responsibility. Yes, i fel...

knallfrosch on May 28, 2023 | parent | context | favorite | on: Scar tissues make relationships wear out (2013)

The biggest step is being able to separate guilt from responsibility.

Yes, i felt bad, yes it was caused by your actions and you're responsible if it happens again. But: You didn't know and didn't intent to hurt me, so you're not a bad person.