I use Tailscale on all my devices so I can access my "home" computer and the applications on it from anywhere.
My impression with the "VPN for outside traffic" is that somebody who wants to gather a lot of sketchy traffic for monitoring it might just start a VPN service to concentrate it.
Not saying they're now bulletproof as they have to comply with Swedish law, but that news is somewhat comforting. Better than popup VPNs who just plug in AWS credentials and then just add customers, and then get raided a week later.
I hate to be that guy, but the vast majority of people using "VPN"s are actually using Proxies. A VPN connects a laptop at starbucks to a printer at the office so you can print something. A Proxy forwards requests on your behalf to web servers and returns results.
Modern VPNs are marketed as such because people love the "P" part without realizing that... they already had that with SSL.
I do when i can. I have protonVPN but then most of the times i get banned from usual sites or get captioned to hell.
I kind of gave up, as I believe this is the natural outcome of having real anonymity: abuse.
I use Mullvad for any unfriendly environments (public wi-fi, cellular networks, etc)
Family members use iCloud Private Relay[1] because it's almost completely seamless.
1. https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT212614