While not "SELECT APPROXIMATELY COUNT (*)," both MySQL and PostgreSQL both offer various metadata tables with approximate (albeit completely unfiltered) total row counts.
Many DB systems have some sort of HLL function to provide a similar approximation (although I think you’re overestimating the costs that MVCC impose on large datasets).
Essentially what SELECT COUNT(*) does in InnoDB is choose the smallest index and fully scans that, in parallel if there's no WHERE clause.
Meanwhile the primary key is typically the largest index, since with InnoDB's clustered index design, the primary key is the table. So it's usually not the best choice for counting unless there are no secondary indexes.
As other commenters mentioned, the query also must account for MVCC, which means properly counting only the rows that existed at the time your transaction started. If your workload has a lot of UPDATEs and/or DELETEs, this means traversing a lot of old row versions in UNDO spaces, which makes it slower.