The fediverse has a problem with discovery, I agree on that piece. Coming from outside the network and trying to access a particular post or user profile is not smooth, mostly because it takes you to the wrong server (I don't use chaos.social, links to there are useless to me).
I've explained in other comments how a URL scheme would help with this.
There are many non-technical users on fediverse and it's working just fine for them, I see their posts all the time saying that they're having a good time despite your scare quotes. The problem in this case is HN users who aren't on the network anywhere, and there's not much I can do about that. I think if you were on it and had a home server this would not be that confusing, you'd just search for the post. Ideally you could skip the search step as well which is why I keep coming back to a URL scheme solution.
