Positivity, abundance, gratitude, mental stability, internal locus of control, unconditional positive regard, mindfulness, sharing of all the above with others.
Basically, be a better person (internally! Start by being kinder to yourself! It’s really hard!)
Then work on communicating that to others. Yes, external attributes (attractiveness, fitness, wealth) matter insofar they’re the first thing(s) others notice about you. Both having options (actual abundance) and knowing you have options (abundance mentally) are extremely important.
Basically, be a better person (internally! Start by being kinder to yourself! It’s really hard!)
Then work on communicating that to others. Yes, external attributes (attractiveness, fitness, wealth) matter insofar they’re the first thing(s) others notice about you. Both having options (actual abundance) and knowing you have options (abundance mentally) are extremely important.