> lifelong habits that can make people fall in love with you
Well, no, but:
1) Figure out who you are and what is appropriate for you, especially in the context of your values and your behaviors. Do the kinds of things that naturally emerge from that perspective and let the other sovereign individuals do their kinds of things and let it sort itself out.
2) Be the type of person who does the kinds of things that desirable-to-you people find attractive and lovable until they notice and you build a reputation for it and you enter into the kind of relationship that naturally occurs within this context.
Intermingle some heartache and heartbreak and hold on loosely, don't let go, la la la.
Any specific advice anyone gives you has a very high probability of being inapplicable to your unique circumstance. Following it has a very high probability of wasting your time, although perhaps you will eventually learn the lesson of not taking other people's advice about how to be/do/fulfill...you.
Well, no, but:
1) Figure out who you are and what is appropriate for you, especially in the context of your values and your behaviors. Do the kinds of things that naturally emerge from that perspective and let the other sovereign individuals do their kinds of things and let it sort itself out.
2) Be the type of person who does the kinds of things that desirable-to-you people find attractive and lovable until they notice and you build a reputation for it and you enter into the kind of relationship that naturally occurs within this context.
Intermingle some heartache and heartbreak and hold on loosely, don't let go, la la la.
Any specific advice anyone gives you has a very high probability of being inapplicable to your unique circumstance. Following it has a very high probability of wasting your time, although perhaps you will eventually learn the lesson of not taking other people's advice about how to be/do/fulfill...you.