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For some people, emulating “normal” social behaviour can be taxing on many levels and perhaps “normal” seems extremely odd to them.

I’d sleep on the idea of ostracising people with social issues because it can hasten a downward spiral.

In a lot of cases, people who don’t fit in are looking for love they don’t receive. Speaking from experience, if you can offer them that love in spite of challenging behaviour, you could be the key to them developing positive relationships that serve as models of how they can effectively fit in.

If you can muster the energy, instead of pushing these people away, as hard as it may seem, try drawing them closer - it’s not an exaggeration to say that you might be saving someone’s life.




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