Hey please don't cross into personal attack in HN comments, even if another comment is wrong or you feel it is.
I appreciate that you're fundamentally making a plea for empathy, but putdowns/attacks are definitely not the right tool for the job, and are against the site guidelines in any case:
Edit: looking through your comments, you've been breaking the site guidelines so badly that I've banned your account. Please don't create accounts to do that with. If you don't want to be banned, you're welcome to email hn@ycombinator.com and give us reason to believe that you'll follow the rules in the future.
I appreciate that you're fundamentally making a plea for empathy, but putdowns/attacks are definitely not the right tool for the job, and are against the site guidelines in any case:
https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
Edit: looking through your comments, you've been breaking the site guidelines so badly that I've banned your account. Please don't create accounts to do that with. If you don't want to be banned, you're welcome to email hn@ycombinator.com and give us reason to believe that you'll follow the rules in the future.