You ignored half of his comment which completely negates your entire spiel.
It was 'that is my position', not 'he is not allowed to protect his family', and 'if I were him and wanted to protect my family' followed by doing everything you are arguing for except the being two-faced and disingenuous about the reasoning.
Please engage with good faith or just state outright that you don't care what the other person says and state your argument without quoting them as if you are responding to what they intended instead of what allows you to make a point.
It was 'that is my position', not 'he is not allowed to protect his family', and 'if I were him and wanted to protect my family' followed by doing everything you are arguing for except the being two-faced and disingenuous about the reasoning.
Please engage with good faith or just state outright that you don't care what the other person says and state your argument without quoting them as if you are responding to what they intended instead of what allows you to make a point.