Good points. My partner lived solo for a few years. I moved into her apartment so she's able to save whatever I offset. She got a big pay raise for doing a masters, 35% I think. She also gets pay increases for each year she works. "Teachers" is a massive generalization in this letter. There are teaching assistants, special ed, teachers with masters and PhDs and teachers with 20 years experience that will all make vastly different amounts of money. I think my partners district tops out at $130K after 20 years with a masters which is comparable to what I make as a developer. I think her job is harder in some ways and easier in others. As with most topics, there's a bit more nuance that you can't capture in a short and opinionated piece.
My sister has 2 kids. Partner attending law school. $80K salary between both. They live in Albany. Mortgage was $250K. They don't have money for daycare or babysitters but university schedule is flexible enough that they can always be with their kids. I'm sure they'd love some alone time but it is what it is. They do take advantage of work perks like sabbaticals and free tuition for law school to avoid large expenses they would otherwise incur.
Hope this provides some more context for more original comment.
My sister has 2 kids. Partner attending law school. $80K salary between both. They live in Albany. Mortgage was $250K. They don't have money for daycare or babysitters but university schedule is flexible enough that they can always be with their kids. I'm sure they'd love some alone time but it is what it is. They do take advantage of work perks like sabbaticals and free tuition for law school to avoid large expenses they would otherwise incur.
Hope this provides some more context for more original comment.