I am really not following your criticism of Dapper? Without Dapper we would both need more servers AND have significantly higher latency.
There is no magic here, it is merely understanding the limitations of the .NET GC and adapting to it. XNA and trading platforms also are aware of these issues and have to follow similar patterns.
There is no magic here, it is merely understanding the limitations of the .NET GC and adapting to it. XNA and trading platforms also are aware of these issues and have to follow similar patterns.