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I think folks' mileage vary significantly on this, and partly due to a distinction I'd make between being bored and not having energy.

I used to know a family that was as creative as folks would come (immediate family had renowned authors, world class academics, illustrator, etc.), and it was clear that the children played such a central role in continuing to foster a culture that was very creative and "alive." But, it was also true that both parents had WFH jobs (this was over a decade ago), extremely flexible schedules, and were very well off to do. In that context, having kids can be the forcing function you describe, especially if the parents in question are folks already predisposed to being curious and interesting people.

However, I suspect most adults end up suffering from a lack of energy. The daily toil ends up sapping so much of themselves that the necessary energy expenditure to be more child-like isn't there, and you get your usual couch potatoes, nappers, seemingly disinterested zombies. For someone in that situation, adding kids to the equation ends up becoming just ONE MORE THING to completely drain them every day.




> But, it was also true that both parents had WFH jobs (this was over a decade ago), extremely flexible schedules, and were very well off

Well, exactly. Its easier to be creative if you don't have financial or time constraints.


I don't think this holds true as generally as might seem obvious. Personally I become much more productive and much more creative when I have serious pressure on me. I think art history also speaks to this if you think about all the artists who did their best work (or all their work) under very difficult conditions such as poverty, abuse or simply having been pressed for time.


With all of the tools we've built to optimize our time, you'd think we would be more creative.


The opposite the optimization becomes rigid structure. One thing breaks and the entire pyramid of your life crumbles


Well, we do. But we don’t really use the time we save to do less work we generally use that time to do more.




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