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Why do these posts never include sex? Such a weird taboo.



Author here. I certainly don't not track it!

If you're wondering where it could appear in the charts, any one of the Sleep/People/Exercise/Other categories would seem a possible candidate...


It would create a lot of awkward interactions for any of their ex's who see the data after it's published, or their family.

Easier to avoid it at least in the public copy. Though I'd argue even tracking it personally might cause issues if your new SO saw it and started to compare to past partners. Best to just leave it out entirely.


They also don't mention time spent pooping and peeing. Doesn't mean it's taboo. Might just not be useful information to track, unless you're trying to have children or to check how your sex life was affected after already having children.


Love and relationships and as part of those sex are such an integral part of life. It seems odd it's such a taboo in tech to discuss, or in this case measure it as part of a life log.


It simply isn't true that love, relationships, and sex are an integral part of life. It's true for many people, but definitely not for everyone. Lots of people are single. Many are celibate (for whatever reason).

I don't think there's a taboo regarding sex and relationships in tech. People can discuss whatever they want. OP is free to choose whether to log (or share) their sex data.


So is pooping. Nothing prevents you from tracking your sex life but I would never do it and especially not put it out there in a public blog post.


Their point is that actually no, it's not similar. I won't call pooping an integral part of life.


A few days without it, and I bet you'll find it pretty integral.


Maybe because of some of the following?:

- it's embarrassing to talk about your sex life, and maybe especially gaps in it, online? - it's naturally private and people value their privacy, particularly online? - people are so taboo about it that they don't even want to record it for their future self? - it just gets lumped in with "sleep"? - it doesn't take up a significant enough amount of time?

All of these depend on the person, of course.


> it's naturally private and people value their privacy, particularly online?

People who value this type of privacy don't publish a decade of logs chronicling their daily life.


perhaps it's not an omission..


If the OP did have sex during this time, I expect it is filled under "people". It would be interesting to track, though. In particular, how much life is dedicated to the pursuit of sex vs actually having sex. I know that my time spent actually having sex has decreased from probably an hour per day to an hour per week. Not sure about time spent in pursuit of sex, though.


I want to track sex. So far it's been a spreadsheet.

Is there anyone else with a better method?


I guess it's the Christian problem -- they seem to hate sex, or at least talking about it.




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