The young always have the power, perhaps the duty, to change the language they are given. That this generation is allowing people that don’t fit into narrow slots of gender to have more freedom and respect isn’t such a bad thing. If you value freedom, can you not recognize allies in your fight for freedom? And racism discussions were never going to simple, after the habit of ignoring the evil of mistreating people due to their skin color became habitually overlooked by the folks with pinker skin.