When you reach a certain age e.g. 40 you start to realize that you only need to appeal for yourself and no one else matters including you family members.
And then suddenly everything goes much better from there.
Everyone. You have to be happy if you want your kid and wife to be happy. Otherwise one just becomes some grumpy husband that everyone tries to avoid.
Individual->Family->Company/Organization/State, I believe that's the way it works. You have to take care of the things on left side to make the things on the right side to feel "happy".
And then suddenly everything goes much better from there.