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That is a load of bullshit. The phrase is used to shit on all things that make men, men. If it was really a technical term to describe the bad components of masculinity, then there would be an equivalent in terms of femininity, since there are aspects of femininity that can be construed as toxic. I would go out and a lim, and suggest that being overly passive, passive aggressive, and backstabbing are all aspects of femininity that could be considered toxic. You could also consider the perverse side effects of the women are wonderful effect to be toxic femininity It is dressed up in academic language to mask its misandry.



> The phrase is used to shit on all things that make men, men.

No, its not, and if you think the things it targets “all the thing that make men men”, you have a very sick idea of what being a man is.

> If it was really a technical term to describe the bad components of masculinity, then there would be an equivalent in terms of femininity, since there are aspects of femininity that can be construed as toxic.

The equivalent is, as one might expect, “toxic femininity”. While it gets less attention, the attention it does get is from the exact same people who care the mosf about toxic masculinity.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sex-sexuality-and-ro...


Please don't do flamewar like this on HN. You normally do an excellent job of avoiding that, even on difficult and divisive topics, so I'm dismayed to see the lapse and I hope it's not a sign of any development in that direction.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html


You broke the site guidelines here. I understand that the topic is provocative and people have good reasons for their strong feelings, on all sides; that makes it more important, not less, to follow the site guidelines. If you'd please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to the rules, we'd be grateful. Note these:

"Please don't fulminate."

"When disagreeing, please reply to the argument instead of calling names. 'That is idiotic; 1 + 1 is 2, not 3' can be shortened to '1 + 1 is 2, not 3."

"Comments should get more thoughtful and substantive, not less, as a topic gets more divisive."




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