> VPN providers are far more likely than AWS to do the kind of shady things that might matter to your relatives, like selling their personal data.
How do you know that AWS isn't spying on your systems? Are they transparent? Do AWS release detailed transparency reports on their servers? You are identified when you pay for AWS no?
I'd rather trust a specialist privacy VPN provider like Mullvad, than me rolling my own VPN on a provider that isn't even transparent and that is hard to use for consumers other than myself.
VPN providers are far more likely than AWS to do the kind of shady things that might matter to your relatives, like selling their personal data.