Hacker News new | past | comments | ask | show | jobs | submit login

I am much better than I was in the past 2 years this year. I still suffer from depression but I have found ways to deal with it. I am better at redirecting thoughts and containing them. I was able to finish few books in the last 2 weeks and continue with a morning walk routine. Those books really helped me understood why I was failing at modern life.

I cut mainstream social media from my life and reduced screen time. I am more optimistic. I am able to fight against the profitable pessimism.

I am reducing the urge to hoard more material belongings. I learnt that on HN. I was able to let go off fancy toys and electronics that I didn't use anymore but kept because I bought them and grown attached to them. If I don't use it, it's better someone else can. I don't want to keep them on eBay for months.

4x faster than before? I don't care to look more unless I need it.

I re-evaluate my room and budget every month in order to cut down what isn't needed. If I don't do that, I will keep using past as a justification for piling up more til I suffocate between Amazon boxes.

I bought a dustbin for my neighborhood because people were throwing wrappers outside and placed it with a note. So far, some people are using it and that makes me happy. Reciprocity is a powerful tool and I am optimistic someone will think about what I did and do the same in future.

I write more using a paper notebook. goals, priorities, learnings, etc. Software note taking tools suck because they limit your freedom on what you can do. At the end of my todos, I make origami pets from them as a reminder of what I able to accomplish.

Don't be afraid of being messy. Here's my notes from a few days ago: https://ibb.co/yPGb4Z8

They aren't coherent but just enough to remind me.




Would you mind sharing the titles of the books?


Essentialism, influence, Putin: prisoner of power, no longer human, invisible cities, and how to lie with statistics.

I am currently going through psychology of money (although it doesn't seem that interesting yet) but I can take up a few recommendations if you have any :)

I have been using audible as my primary way to read (listen?) and supplement it with kindle. Reading is too much friction at first but once I get past the first chapter, I am eager to pick up the written book.


It might fit those books, there's a great one that is also highly entertaining called "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion".


Hehe, that's the one I added above on second place.




Guidelines | FAQ | Lists | API | Security | Legal | Apply to YC | Contact

Search: