Not the OP, but I generally prefer JDBI for persistence in Java. Much less random glue/boilerplate vs Hibernate. It doesn't seem to have an official Quarkus integration, but you can just pull it in like any other dependency.
Same, I just write my own SQL and row mappers. It's not a huge deal, and then I actually know what the schema looks like (and why queries are slow ;). Hibernate has way too much magic going on under the covers.
I have loved Dropwizard in the past, which encourages the use of Liquibase. Not right for every project, but it was great when it fit.
