Yeah but in all that -- you get in a car crash, police look up your info, go to your partner's house, tell them that you're in a coma in the hospital, he or she freaks out and drives down to the hospital and is sitting next to you in the ICU while that machine beeps every 2 seconds... is everybody going to be on top of their email?
Why would she or anyone else need to be on top of their email in such a case? Wouldn't that be the exact type of emergency where that anti-kidnapping system can safely be ignored?