I think the more relevant equation is a=𝚫v²/(2d) which gives you the acceleration needed to realize a speed change 𝚫v over a distance d. Larger cars allow for a larger d, therefore a smaller peak acceleration in crashes.
edit: I just realized you were focusing on mass. While a higher mass is safer for you, it comes at the cost of making things less safe for everyone else. Making cars larger while keeping mass the same doesn't come with this trade-off, it reduces peak acceleration for everyone.
edit: I just realized you were focusing on mass. While a higher mass is safer for you, it comes at the cost of making things less safe for everyone else. Making cars larger while keeping mass the same doesn't come with this trade-off, it reduces peak acceleration for everyone.