I don't hate Asian values because I wish I were whiter. I have a problem with my parents giving me extra math problems to do that were way beyond my grade level, and then telling me they were surprised that they'd never seen any girl where the harder she tried, the worse she did. They were assholes who reduced me to a good GPA and nothing more. Think a little bit harder about why so many Asians don't like their parents.
Some of them, yes. The only Asian guys I find attractive, platonically or romantically, are ones who tend to be more extroverted or seem more relaxed about life.