Thank you for providing your side of the story. While I can no longer edit my post to point to this, I have upvoted this post to hopefully bring some visibility to it, and encourage others to do the same.
Until someone can provide a chat log of what was actually said in that conversation that led up to that comment, it's still going to be difficult for any outside observer to make up their own mind on whether or not those words were indeed taken out of context to the degree that you suggest. But I can appreciate that it could be frustrating to deal with someone who behaves as you claim, even if his intentions might be to keep the protocol open and secure.
Until someone can provide a chat log of what was actually said in that conversation that led up to that comment, it's still going to be difficult for any outside observer to make up their own mind on whether or not those words were indeed taken out of context to the degree that you suggest. But I can appreciate that it could be frustrating to deal with someone who behaves as you claim, even if his intentions might be to keep the protocol open and secure.