They also don't drive several thousand or tens of thousand kilometers in one go once or more a year either in addition to the normal driving, so I'd say that argument is not helpful here.
That's not how it'll work though. Do vegans get more flight allowances? Do people with kids have to forgo meat as well as vacations?
Obviously no consumer choice driven solution is going to work. The costs have to be included in the goods and services if we want any actual reduction.
Per passenger. Therefore, a single passenger on a single 8000 mile flight produces as much CO2 as an average family car in a year (where I live - 13000 Km/year).
The majority of people do not fly multiple times per week.
Having said that, I do agree with the main thrust of your comment: consume less.