If you would have said you were a high school dropout and poor communicator this would have made a point but PhD + charm is phenotypically similar to an attractive ivy grad so you’re kind of proving the point.
Please be aware this is your bias, your POV. You can't use it to prove your own point.
PhD is nothing similar to your connotation of Ivy League grad. The former requires years of sacrifice, ruined relationship, and missed experiences to master an esoteric part of science. The latter has the connotation of privilege.
