Oh man that sounds bad! You're right, sometimes these events do expose the inability to handle failure and you're right that that means walking away.
Thankfully many times we're reminded that there are good people out there working hard against difficult constraints and they finally get their chance to do things 'correctly' in the wake of the SHTF.
Thankfully many times we're reminded that there are good people out there working hard against difficult constraints and they finally get their chance to do things 'correctly' in the wake of the SHTF.