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I'm a millennial, and it made me sick to read this. It made me glad that I live where I live. I don't live in the suburbs in spite of having my own discrete unit; I live in the suburbs precisely because I have my own discrete unit.

I want my own backyard so that I can go and enjoy sitting by a fire with music I like without ever needing to worry that I might have to compete with others on a cool Friday night in Autumn.

I want my own driveway so that I can go play basketball whenever I feel like, without needing to feel pressured to play nice with others.

I want my own car so that I can drive to and from work in peace, and so that I can do whatever I want in my car, like smoke a cigar. What's the likelihood that my friendly neighborhood ride sharing service will let me do that? Zero. My car is just about the only place left I can smoke in Massachusetts when I'm not at home, and I'm happy to pay for that privilege.

Even if I were OK with all of that, there are numerous dubious claims made in this article about how this new style of living would benefit the environment and would presumably save people from flooding. Really? Would it? How did you figure that? Or does it just sound like it makes sense?

Many signs point to me being stranger than my generational cohorts, but I like the suburbs precisely because I viscerally dislike living in shared spaces.




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I didn't make any argument against any research. I stated my own personal desires which run deeply contrary to the desires grafted on to me by the OP.

Also, none of what I said had anything to do with being antisocial.


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I didn't say that generally. My main point was clearly that I don't want to live in a shared space. I'm otherwise happy to place nice with others! (There is plenty of evidence online that I do, in fact, play nicely with others.) Anyway, it's pretty clear to me that you're going to misinterpret anything I say in the worst possible light, so I think we should stop this thread.


Not that I agree completely with the original comment, but I, too, feel like when visiting a 'city', I am competing for resources.

I do not enjoy this adversarial feeling.


I guess it's adversarial if you want resources all to yourself. But something like a basketball court is easily shared.




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