Don't most IDE's do SQL in the mix with everything else or am I just spoiled by Visual Studio?
My opinion is that one uses an ORM for different situations than they would use SQL. Many applications can use an ORM and nothing else. Some can use an ORM for basic CRUD tasks and then raw SQL to do analysis or reporting.
you (and I) are absolutely spoiled by Visual Studio w/SSDT. there is nothing even remotely close to that level of integration for database development in other stacks.
the level of integration with SSDT is way beyond that - the database structure and stored procs live side-by-side with your code, are source controlled together, built and deployed together. there's compile-time checks for stored procedures, code analysis, etc. DataGrip is just an alternative for SQL Developer/Management Studio, SSDT is much more.
My opinion is that one uses an ORM for different situations than they would use SQL. Many applications can use an ORM and nothing else. Some can use an ORM for basic CRUD tasks and then raw SQL to do analysis or reporting.