>>You also seem to believe that people have no responsibility for making people around them comfortable unless they are explicitly told it is making them uncomfortable. Everyone has a responsibility not to be ass.
>I do not believe this.
Let's take this further. If your coworker pulled you aside and punched you every day when you came into work, would you say they were justified as long as you didn't tell them you didn't want that to happen?
If this person were your boss and you were afraid you'd be ostracized or fired if you spoke up, are you not a victim?
At what point can we agree that behavior is worthy of condemnation without needing to explicitly be told that it's not okay?
>I do not believe this.
Let's take this further. If your coworker pulled you aside and punched you every day when you came into work, would you say they were justified as long as you didn't tell them you didn't want that to happen?
If this person were your boss and you were afraid you'd be ostracized or fired if you spoke up, are you not a victim?
At what point can we agree that behavior is worthy of condemnation without needing to explicitly be told that it's not okay?