I worked for junglee.com (a relatively unknown site owned by Amazon that used very little CPU) and extra latency on HTTPS was a massive, serious issue.
What flaw in our software or serious configuration mistake do you think we had?
Based on the current configuration: No OCSP stapling and no elliptic curve key exchange.
Also your setup suffers from TLS version intolerance, which by itself isn't a performance issue, but it is a hint that you're using a badly written TLS stack.
What flaw in our software or serious configuration mistake do you think we had?