I didn't mind when I was 16 because my mother was pragmatic. She didn't want to control me or my whereabouts and was only concerned with my safety. She also made it clear that I could always count on her for a ride no matter the hour without any fear of anger, annoyance or retribution. She cared only for my safety and well being and she trusted me. That trust weighed heavy on my decision making process.
Would that work on all kids? I doubt it. But we can't project our own experiences onto other parents and kids. It can seem bizarre to those that grew up with a rebellious streak or controlling parents but it's possible to have really good and trusting relationships with your parents.
Would that work on all kids? I doubt it. But we can't project our own experiences onto other parents and kids. It can seem bizarre to those that grew up with a rebellious streak or controlling parents but it's possible to have really good and trusting relationships with your parents.